The major Heart Attack that most women underwent when the big thirty is closing in and they are not married, is enough for scientists to come up with medication to subdue it. They become too anxious and impatient and emotional at the slightest provocative. But on a second thought.
- Why do some women ask another, when they will get married
- Why does society expect a woman to be married before the big thirty
- Why do women get so anxious when the big thirties is at the corner?
- Who made it mandatory for women to be marry before thirty?
- Why do people assume that miss Beyonce story should be the same with Miss Rihanna? I have so many questions that needs urgent answers.
Society expect every woman to be married on time or before her thirties. If it’s fail to happen. Hell break loose, we start running from pillar to poll looking for solutions. readjusting the almighty list. If for instance, you wanted a tall, six-pack, chocolate man with mansion in banana island. We reduce it to oga Livinus with pot belly. The society want to see that rock on your finger at all cost. Never minding how you get it. If you caused pain to another person or either you put a gun to his head and said today na today either your life or ring. They don’t care about your goals and dreams but marriage validation. It is just sad that society have ways of detecting how our lives should be. If you choose to be a rebel princess. Defying all set standards and norms they give you a label. It is usually extreme rebellious Princess, who do whatever they pleases without a blink of what society tagged them
Yes! Marriage is very important even the Bible emphasized on it, without enforcing the right age to marry. The Bible did not say “thou must be married on or before the age of thirty or else you are doomed.
Marriage is the union between a man and a woman, although marriage now doesn’t really involved only a man and woman. The is bestiality, gay marriage, and the rest of the creepy ones. It’s none of my business what people sexuality are and what they do with their private parts. My points is to comprehend why some women who are not married are usually given judgmental audience. Some persons immediately conclude that unmarried ladies have ugly attitudes. Some try to analyze why you are still single at thirty. Meanwhile, most unmarried ladies are on the quest to prove that they are happy and don’t need a man.
One reasons why most women want to be called “Mrs” is because they don’t want to be disrespected. Everyone wants to be the Real Housewives of Lekki, ikeja, Maitama, Asokoro, New York, Miami , Beverly Hills, Cape Town etc. They want to prove to their sometimes invisible haters and nay sayers that have a man. This is one of the foundation whereby women begin to scheme and be anxious in getting a husband by force and by fire.
Please let press the reset the buttons of sanity back. Let not have wrong motives for getting married, let not make others feel worthless because of marriage, do not use your marital status to intimidate another women. Do not commit suicide because you are not married.