Women Struggles | Why Women are Slut-Shamed in the Society
Our society is full with hypocrites. People who sit on golden chairs in their various home detecting how the society should be, how people should live their lives. Giving unwarranted opinions on what people should wear, how they should talk, what they should say, where they should go, who they should be and associates with. The sad part is that women are the ones affected by these societal fraud. Women struggles to be respected in the society is long overdue.
The men have upper hands in everything. The double standard in our society are so irritating and difficult to overlook. How can a fellow human being victimized another simply because they feel, they are in a favorable situation.
A man can be the biggest slut in the world has ever witnessed. The society will applaud and crown him a sharp bad guy, Mr player, baddest, the realest, and all that nonsense they chant in jubilation to conquering a bevy of ladies. If reverse was the case here. The names calling alone might make most women who have hoe tendencies join convent with immediate effect. Please am not supporting or encouraging anyone to be promiscuous. I just want the same treatment melted to women to equal the same with men. No cheating, No games and pranks, everyone should be tag the same thing.
Please again, understand my rant, am not trying to promote rachetness or immoral act from women, but am trying to make a point about the frustrating fact that men are allowed to do and be whatever they want without a frown or a bad label from the society. No-one has right to judge others because they choose to live their lives without a second thought of what the society think or say.
The reality is like, performing in a circus and playing along to the rules of the games crafted by superior clowns because you are the lesser clown. It is ridiculous and exhausting to play in a circus. Strong willed women struggles to break free and live a liberated life from the societal standard are mostly looked down on and vicious criticized without mercy. Please let stop this mentality because we are not God. Do you and let others do them. If you see someone going into a wrong direction. Show them the supposed right part with love and respect.
On a second thought, these same individuals who feel they owned the world or better than others, may have had their wild days and retired. Or they are burden with resentments because they never had the chance to be themselves. Then maybe, some of them are biggest psycopath behind closed doors but will come out and wave the white flag for us.
Let us suppressed and cut down the hypocrisy, double standard, and denigration towards women. Lets call a spade a spade. whenever the spade is malfunctioning, without considering what kind of spade it is.
For us to have a that perfect society it begin with how we treat the next person beside us and ourselves. We should use our words to promote and build not bring down. We should not always look for who to blame and pour our frustration on. Lets learn to respect one others. We should always be men, feminists and females that help minimise the problem and not fuel it. A woman should not be made to feel worthless while men are praise.