Happy in not a gift from someone but a gift you have to give yourself. Self love is so essential, but many of us do not know how to love ourselves and what it means to love ourselves. Some persons are struggling with how to put themselves first. Because they are always thinking about others before them. It’s good to be selfless and sensitive to others, but don’t do it at your own expense. It’s not about being selfish. It’s the right thing to do. you are important first, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
Self Love and how to Love Yourself First without Feeling Guilty
You are important first because charity begins at home. That means love must start from you. When you don’t love yourself others will abuse you. You may think that others are more important but if you neglect yourself, you may become sicken and that may bring more problems. If you love your mother, wife, husband, children and father so much, you have to take care of yourself first. It is you first before anything. You have got to ensure that you become the best that you should become.
Do not get yourself confused, that must you should suffer because you want to be wealthy. Wealth and health are important. The point is that you can be wealthy and die. what is the essence? You can be wealthy and suffer ailment and spend all the money on it, self love is important to maintain good health.
The people around you, your business and career do not count if you not in the right mental health. Put yourself in check. It is only when you become the best that you can be. They will enjoy you, but first it’s begin with self love.
So many of us are stressed out, exhausted because of the need to help and lift our families. They are so many people to help and so many mouth to feed but the resources are limited. You can not help everyone at the same time. If you cannot do that, you don’t have to get yourself worried. You have to learn the principles of helping one person at the a particular time and how to say NO! Saying no does not mean you do not love the person or you do not what to help. But you have to set your priorities right in order not to exhaust yourself. And end up becoming helpless too and the will be no-one to help each others.
Help one person at a time. Do not over do it, if you are finding it difficult to cope.
Before you can give to others, you must take of yourself financially, mentally, economically, psychological, spiritually, knowledge and health wise. You can not give your energy into helping so many people at the same point and become empty from it. You will end up helping nobody and yourself either. It all about self love. It is not selfishness. Because you may disagree. But some day you will know that it is the truth. You have to learn how to stand as a pillar first then stretch to help others. Two similar weights can not help themselves. You have to be heavier than someone before you could pull them up.
Build up yourself and have a high level of self love to become that solid rock, that pillar and then put your family and friends in order.
Why you must Place Value to your Life and Enhance your Self Love Level
The most important person in this world is you. You first before anyone. It is not being mean or thoughtless. Your life is a gift, given to you take care of it. Your life is a process it has beginning and will definitely has an ending. Do not joke with your life. What will be the use of wealth to a dead man or bedridden woman.
Life is about fighting for what you want and taking your territory. If you do not fight for what you want that you do not want will find it way to you and force it wills on you.
Do not play with your life. Your life is your business and your business is your life. And your happiness depend on you and you alone. Nobody will teach you the value of self love except you.
Do not do things that are beyond your power and reach. Help the people you can at a given time. Don’t trouble your mind if you are unable to help everyone at the same time.
Take care of you