To be honest, it is a hard to know fake and real people in online dating sites. These people are very smart and scheming too. As you trying to know their agenda, they are also covering all their tracks.
Do you think they are dumb? No they are not! That doesn’t matter though, the only thing that matters is for you not to be at the receiving end. Don’t allow them beat you to the game.
What to do Before you go on a Date with Someone you Meet through Online Dating Sites
Before you dress up and go for that date with that man or woman, in whatever location. Please do the following:
One of the ways to know a fake people on dating sites begin with YOU. Listen to your inner voice before you make a step.
Always Listen to your inner voice first before you start proclaiming undying love for that man or woman you have not met yet. Think it out first before crying a an ocean later.
Now to a more practical ones. if you start chatting with anyone on any dating sites or social platforms. Please ask for their full names first not their gangster, nick names, social media name or slaying name. Google it immediately. What you see will determine if you still want to go ahead chatting them or not
Google their workplace. We have many CEOs on social media. Most of them only execute their work in odd places and time. You don’t want to be disappointed after an high expectations.
Stalk their social media page. Become the best CIA agent and private investigators. look at every tagged pictures. Open the profile of those people and stroll through. It is not a crime. Nobody will arrest you for it. You just trying to protect yourself. Be unapologetic about it.
Look for their other social media accounts, pay attention to what they post on other people page, their page and the kind of photograph they like on social media. You might think this is silly until you are drinking red wine, listening to sad music and scooping a bucket of ice cream in a dark room crying tears and blood all by yourself.
Casually ask for their favourite vacation destination, where they have visited and love to visit, google it immediately. Search for those social media account and their tagged pictures
Google their ex partners, friends and family. Google their previous place of abode.
Know all their social media platforms. Search for their favourite hangout spot, restaurant, their former school.
Create another account on a different dating sites and chat them up. This is one is kind of sticky but you have to do it. It will not be funny when you lost your money, mind, and probably get kill on the journey of finding love and friendship on dating sites.
If you start chatting with anyone on a dating sites please get their number immediately and video chat with them. Pay serious attention to the environment and their fourth finger. Some will give you excuse do not buy it.
Call them at odd hours and see if they pick up. Be modest on the display of your information on the dating sites.
Google their former place of work. If they claimed to have children, find out the name of their school and where it is located, and age. They may be lying
Google the names of people involved in crimes for the recent years.
Know about the kind of movies they like.
Please ensure you do half of these things before you go on a date with anyone you meet on dating sites. Protect yourself.